I snapped these fabulous shots of pumpkins whilst in New York recently. Those Americans sure do know how to celebrate the holidays. Fantastically sculptured works of art adorned shop windows all over town, much to my delight.
1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative – dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift
I absolutely adored Eat Pray Love and think that Elizabeth Gilbert is fabulous. In this TED lecture she delves into the subject of creativity, how she is coping with the outrageous success of Eat Pray Love and the expectation around her forthcoming work.
She poses the theory that perhaps it’s not the person that is the genius when they produce something extraordinary, but genius channelled through them to create the masterpiece. To nurture the genius you have to show up and start doing the work. It’s a good self preservation tactic if the work sucks as well, I was there but my genius never showed. Note to self: Start showing up!
If you need someone to show you a good night out then you can’t go wrong with Miss Adi. My partner in crime from the good old days, now a mum, but still a party queen underneath it all.
We started our night with cocktails at Sushi Samba, moving on to sake (quite nice, could be my new tipple) with our sushi. Telling the waitress to bring out what she thought we’d like was a good way to order and the food was to die for!

These shoes are taxi shoes, not walking shoes!
From Sushi Samba we made our way to a fabulous bar in the West Village, I’ve no idea of the name. There were a couple of things that amused/bemused me when we first arrived. It was the seat hunt at the bar, which we excelled at, then it was the gigantic tip Adi gave the barman up front so he’d keep serving us!

Our attentive waiter after a big tip
The biggest thing though, was the amount of absolutely stunning girls in the bar and very average looking men. The girls were still eying these men up, like hungry lions that haven’t eaten for a while. We spoke to one girl, who we decided was the epitome of the single New York girl. Stunning, high maintenance, confident and very very single. While she was talking to us, her eyes constantly flicked around the room, settling on men, she’d scan them from head to toe taking in the quality of their shoes, clothes and doing a quick assessment of their bank balance. Most amusing to watch. Single guys, get over to New York, it’s a cherry picking dream.

Stunning and Single in New York
Making our way to Buddha Bar, we watched as groups were turned away at the door, being told there was a minimum table spend of $350. Ok, I was up for a big night, but not that big! Adi assured me we’d be fine and hustled her way to the front, gaining us access with no problems whatsoever. Work it baby!
Fabulous night babe, can’t wait to see you back in Blighty! x
Whilst in New York recently I met up with Tom and Chloe for a fabulous brunch in their West Village neighborhood and they took me on a little tiki tour of the surrounding area. We ended up at the High Line, which is a brilliant initiative to beautify inner city living. Taking a disused overground railway line, the council (do they call them a council in the states?) has planted a magical garden and made it into a relaxing and enjoyable destination. The first part of the line opened in June and the next part is due to open in 2010, which will span another whole ten blocks.
Here’s what you can expect to see, viewing platforms over the road, pretty flowers, interesting wild grasses, sharply contrasting angles, city views, deck chairs and loungers. You can just spot the Hudson river sparkling in the distance, but having seen that already while en route, I was more mesmerised by the angles, the greenery, the city scape and the people watching.
No one does cupcakes like the Americans. To be quite honest, I prefer the taste of the Hummingbird bakery cupcakes – it’s the icing that has the cream cheese in it, instead of the whipped confectionary they use over here.
The American cupcakes win hands down in terms of inventiveness though. Check out the pictures that I’ve taken over the last couple of days as I’ve indulged my cupcake fetish. The place to see cupcakes in New York is the Chelsea Food Market, where you’ll find a row of bakeries offering an array of tempting and purty sweet treats.

The famous Magnolia Bakery

Magnolia Bakery Red Velvet Cupcake

Scrumptious offering in the Chelsea Food Market

Obama Cupcakes

New York cookies and cupcakes

Cheeseburger and Fries Cake (yes, really)

Cute Doggy Cupcakes

Almost too cute to eat, almost but not quite
Before hitting the town on Saturday night I had a play date with Adi’s kids, who I’ve never met before now. It’s funny when you just know your friend from party days and now you see them in a totally different environment, as a responsible, grown up mum!
It was fabulous to meet little Lachlan and baby William. The monster trucks I bought for Lachlan were very well received and we played crash up derby races. He is a most gracious little boy who kept fetching my truck back for me so I could keep close to my wine glass. Chivalry in one so young!
I’ve learnt that in the past, buying kids off works really well so I was happy to see that he loved the present and it scored me a shy kiss when he went to bed. William is too little to know any better so he just got a little soft toy, a cuddly sheep so he doesn’t forget his half kiwi roots.

Not quite sure...

Warming Up

We have a toy winner!

Baby William
After working for the last three days in NYC I wanted to feel like I was on holiday. Going away for work is totally over rated and I’d rather be at home in my own bed – but having the weekend in NYC was an upside of my trip.
Saturday afternoon was put aside to meet up with Tammy and J.C and to meet little Liam. The last time I was in New York he was a little bundle swathed in blankets. Now he is a delightful little character that I’ve gotten to know through Tammy and J.C’s facebook updates. He didn’t disappoint in person either. Who can’t love a kid who is just as at home in Shun Lee, our dim sum restaurant – eating shumai and pork buns with finesse, as he is on the couch eating macaroni cheese.

Shumair Superstar
The dim sum was ok, the company was fabulous and meeting Liam again was wonderful. Liam’s verdict on Shun Lee dim sum? It’s ok (said with a little shrug of his shoulders and the gesture below). We were on the Upper West Side and the dim sum in China town is ten times cheaper and quite a bit better according to Tammy and J.C. Next time I’m in town we’ll have to catch up there, I think I’d like them as Chinatown guides, as you could get it so wrong going by yourself!

It's ok

Shun Lee Catch Up
Adi and I caught up last night at a fabulous Mexican restuarant and had a lovely time, but ended up going home before 9! Two kids under 3 for her and me still being on London time, meant an earlier night than we used to have back in London town party days. Back then, it wasn’t uncommon to be up when the birds started tweeting, only then did you think that perhaps it was bed time.
So we’ll use last night as a warm up to tonight, where we have to stay out until at LEAST midnight, just to preserve our party street cred!